Who you might meet
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Two adults with an age gap do not need a local method. An account and an outgoing message cost nothing. A membership opens the replies. Profiles under 18 are not part of the site. If the gap matters to your search, show a range before the other person is invested.
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A metro is wide. Cape Town and Johannesburg are different provinces. Do not add an age surprise to a geography surprise. A transfer to someone you have not met is the fraud shape, even when the message calls it help.
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Children from another relationship can be mentioned when they change the diary. Mention children when they change the diary. You are allowed to talk either way. Screening runs on messages. Meet in public.
What to say
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Ages in the open
Say the range. Under 18 is out. There is no tactic to learn.
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The province
Name the city. An age gap does not make Johannesburg and Cape Town close.
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Say the ages
Money framed as romance, before you have met, is a reason to stop.
Questions
Is under 18 ever allowed?
No, both people are adults, and the ages belong in the open if the gap is the point. A membership opens the replies, and profiles under 18 are not part of the site. Mention children when they change the diary, and you are allowed to talk either way.
Can I message without paying?
Yes, a membership opens the replies. An account and an outgoing message cost nothing. A transfer to someone you have not met is the fraud shape, even when the message calls it help. If the gap matters to your search, show a range before the other person is invested.
Do I need a method?
No, honest ages and a real city are the useful parts. Two adults with an age gap do not need a local method. Money framed as romance, before you have met, is a reason to stop. A metro is wide, and Cape Town and Johannesburg are different provinces.
What if they ask for money?
Stop, and report and block. Do not send a transfer, a voucher or a parcel, because screening runs on messages. Say the ages before anyone travels, and meet in public when you do meet. Under 18 is out, and the ages belong in the first exchange.