Who you might meet
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Two adults with years between them can meet here. Say both ages in the first messages. Anyone under 18 is outside the site. You can write before you choose a plan, and a plan is what opens the reply. Leave scripts about dressing younger, withholding attention, or using money as bait out of the chat.
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If the gap is the point of the search, put a range in the profile instead of revealing it once they are attached. Housing, children and who pays for dinner can be discussed when they change the week.
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Manners you can watch across a table do not change with a birth year. Incoming messages go through a screen. Name the city, and do not send money to someone you have not met.
What to say
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Two adults
Under 18 is out. Skip the tactics about clothes, silence or spending. They treat one person as prey.
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Say the ages
Say the range early if the gap is why you searched. A surprise later lands badly.
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The city still matters
Say the town as well as the ages. Both make the plan kinder.
Questions
Is this only for adults?
Yes, anyone under 18 is outside the site, and say the ages. Two adults with years between them can meet here. Housing, children and who pays for dinner can be discussed when they change the week. Manners you can watch across a table do not change with a birth year.
Can I message without paying?
Yes, opening their message takes a plan. Incoming messages go through a screen, and name the city, and do not send money to someone you have not met. Say both ages in the first messages, and anyone under 18 is outside the site.
Is there a method I should follow?
No, honest ages and ordinary manners are the whole advice. If the gap is the point of the search, put a range in the profile instead of revealing it once they are attached. Say the range early if the gap is why you searched.
What if money comes up too fast?
Treat it as a warning. Stop, and use report and block. Do not send a transfer. Leave scripts about dressing younger, withholding attention, or using money as bait out of the chat. You can write before you choose a plan, and a plan is what opens the reply.