Who you might meet
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An age gap is two adults and a range you can say out loud. Free members can send the first message, and reading and replying need a plan. Perth and Sydney are different weekends. Say the city in the first message. Say the ages. Leave clothes, strategic silence and gifts out of the early messages.
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Under 18 is out. Housing and children can be spoken when they change the week. Mention children and money when they change the weekend. A transfer of money to a person you have not met is the fraud pattern, not generosity.
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Say which city you live in. Hiding it is not tension. Messages pass through screening. If you meet, choose a public place and go home by your own plan.
What to say
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Adults and a range
Say the ages early. Anyone under 18 is outside the site.
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Say the ages
Write plainly about money and about pace. Say what you mean in the first exchange. Write like a person.
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Name the city
Capitals are far apart. An age gap does not make Perth and Sydney a weeknight.
Questions
Is this for adults only?
Yes, say the ages; under 18 is out. An age gap is two adults and a range you can say out loud. Perth weekends and Sydney weekends are different trips, so the city belongs in that same note. Pick a busy cafe, tell someone you trust, and leave in a taxi you booked yourself.
Can I message without paying?
Yes, a plan is how their answer opens. Say the city in the first message, and say the ages. Leave clothes, strategic silence and gifts out of the early messages. Write to them first, and a plan can wait. The opening note can go out before a plan is chosen.
Does distance matter?
Yes, say the city; a surprise later is not chemistry. Put the age range in the opening note when the gap is the reason you searched, and keep anyone younger than eighteen off the site. Under 18 is out, and housing and children can be spoken when they change the week.
What if they ask for money?
Stop, and report and block. Do not send a transfer. A transfer of money to a person you have not met is the fraud pattern, not generosity. Mention children and money when they change the weekend. Adelaide's own guide, and the Australia hub, help once the city is settled.