Who you might meet
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Some members want a fat partner. Some are fat and are tired of being treated as a project. Both can write a profile. You can send a message without paying. Reading what they sent is the paid step. Neither needs outfits, a feeding joke, or a speech about learning to love yourself before you deserve a message.
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If weight is the only line you can write, you do not have a profile yet. Town, time and whether you want a relationship are still the date. Recent photos of you matter because they are accurate, not because a body needs a defence.
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Screening runs on messages. Britain does not get a national body statistic on this page. Meet somewhere public.
What to say
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Plain words
Say what you want without a joke at their expense, and without a pep talk.
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More than a weight
Add the town and the kind of evening you want. That is the date.
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Honest photos
Recent pictures of you help a meeting. Recent pictures help them recognise you when you meet.
Questions
Can I message without paying?
Yes, reading what they sent is the paid step. Both can write a profile, and you can send a message without paying. Neither needs outfits, a feeding joke, or a speech about learning to love yourself before you deserve a message.
Will the page comment on my body?
No, say your preference, or your own shape, in ordinary words, and that is enough. Screening runs on messages, and Britain does not get a national body statistic on this page. Recent photos of you matter because they are accurate, not because a body needs a defence.
Do I need a confidence plan?
No, those speeches are insults with a softer verb. Be specific about the person you hope to meet. If weight is the only line you can write, you do not have a profile yet. Some members want a fat partner, and some are fat and are tired of being treated as a project.
Where do we meet?
A busy public place in the city on your profile. The city guides name real spots. Town, time and whether you want a relationship are still the date. Say the city in the first message so the journey is one you can both make.