Who you might meet
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People search this because they want a fat partner, or because they are fat and tired of messages that treat that as a problem to solve. Free members can send the first message, and reading and replying need a plan. Write the preference the way you would write any other: specifically, and without a joke that only works if they flinch.
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You do not need a lecture on confidence, a list of outfits, or a comment on anyone's body. Town, time and whether you want a relationship are still the date. Recent photos of you matter because a meeting goes better when the picture was honest, not because a body needs a defence.
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Dublin and Cork have city guides for the practical evening. A smaller country is not an excuse for a crueller sentence. The screen on messages is automatic.
What to say
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Say it plainly
If you want a fat partner, say so. Skip the wink, the diet talk and the pep talk.
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The rest of the profile
Add the town and the kind of relationship you want. Say you want a fat partner plainly.
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Photos
Recent pictures of you are a courtesy. They are not an apology.
Questions
Can I message someone here without paying?
Yes, the outgoing message costs nothing to send. Reading a reply and writing back need a plan. People search this because they want a fat partner, or because they are fat and tired of messages that treat that as a problem to solve.
How do I say what I want?
In ordinary words, without a joke about their body or a speech about learning to love yourself. Town, time and whether you want a relationship are still the date. Write the preference the way you would write any other: specifically, and without a joke that only works if they flinch.
Will you comment on my body?
No, the page is about the preference and the practical evening, not a critique. You do not need a lecture on confidence, a list of outfits, or a comment on anyone's body. A smaller country is not an excuse for a crueller sentence.
Where would we meet?
Somewhere public you can leave, once you have named the city. The Dublin and Cork guides name real places if that is your city. Agree the stop, tell a friend the time, and keep the way home in your own hands.