Who you might meet
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In New Zealand the want is ordinary. You would like a fat partner, or you are fat and finished with chats that try to improve you. Say that without a softer label stacked on top. An account and an outgoing message cost nothing. Reading a reply and writing back need a plan.
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If the only sentence you can write is about weight, you do not have a profile yet. The rest of a person is still the date: town, time, whether they want a relationship. Whangārei's page is a place, not a community of body types.
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Skip the outfit list and the wink about feeding. Screening runs on messages. Recent photos matter because they are accurate.
What to say
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Say it straight
A fat partner, or your own body, in ordinary words. No lecture and no joke.
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Town still matters
Add where you are. Add the town, so Friday has a real place.
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Photos of you
Recent and honest. Not a defence, and not a performance.
Questions
Is the first message free?
Yes, an account and an outgoing message cost nothing. Reading a reply and writing back need a plan. Screening runs on messages, and recent photos matter because they are accurate. If the only sentence you can write is about weight, you do not have a profile yet.
Will you critique my body?
No, weight is not graded here, and nobody is handed a plan to change a body. Whangārei's page is a place, not a community of body types. The rest of a person is still the date: town, time, whether they want a relationship.
Does Whangārei belong in this search?
Only as a town where a person lives. Whangārei is a town where a person lives, with its own page. In New Zealand the want is ordinary, and you would like a fat partner, or you are fat and finished with chats that try to improve you.
How do I meet safely?
A public place, a friend told, and report and block if money appears. Say that without a softer label stacked on top. Reading a reply and writing back need a plan. Skip the outfit list and the wink about feeding.