Who you might meet
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This page is for women who want to meet women in Ireland. Send that message before you decide on a plan. A plan is how their answer opens. You can say that plainly. You do not have to recount a coming-out for someone who treats it as entertainment.
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Being in Ireland does not mean a story about everyone knowing everyone. Some places are small. Some are not. Ask where a person can actually meet, and do not choose a plan that publishes her business to a town. Couples looking for a third person should say that in the first exchange, not after a week of pretending.
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Northern Ireland sits on the UK pages. Incoming messages go through a screen. A first meeting stays somewhere you can leave. If a no arrives, it is the whole answer.
What to say
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Be direct
Say you want to meet women. Stop there if the rest is not yet anyone's business.
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Ask the place
Dublin and a smaller town are different evenings. Ask where a meeting can actually happen.
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Say the shape
If you are a couple looking for someone else, say so immediately. If you are a couple looking for someone else, say so in the first message.
Questions
Can I message women in Ireland without paying?
Yes, the message you send is free. A membership covers opening the answer. Northern Ireland sits on the UK pages, and incoming messages go through a screen. If you are a couple looking for someone else, say so in the first message.
Do I have to explain my history?
No, you can be direct about wanting to meet women and still keep the rest private. That does not make Dublin and a small town the same place to meet, and it does not oblige anyone to tell you their history.
Is a small town the same as Dublin?
No, ask where she can meet. Do not assume the whole country shares one room. Dublin and a smaller town are different evenings. Some places are small, and some are not. Same-sex marriage has been legal in Ireland since 2015.
What if a message will not stop?
Report and block in your account. Meet in public the first time, and keep the journey home in your hands. Send that message before you decide on a plan. Stop there if the rest is not yet anyone's business. Ask where a person can actually meet, and do not choose a plan that publishes her business to a town.