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Lesbian dating in South Africa
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- Running since 2010
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Who you might meet
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Women meeting women is its own search, not a copy of the men's page. An account and an outgoing message cost nothing. A membership opens the replies. You can be explicit that you want to meet women. You do not have to narrate your history to every match.
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Do not ask a woman to prove she is really gay, to send photos on demand, or to educate you. If you are curious about a label, ask once, accept the answer, and do not build a theory. Couples looking for a third person should say that immediately.
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Being out to family is her information. Johannesburg, Cape Town and Durban are different risks and different drives. Screening runs on messages. Meet where you can leave.
What to say
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Say you want to meet women
That sentence is enough. Skip the demand that she prove it.
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Name the city
A small town and Cape Town are not the same plan. Ask where she can meet.
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Her privacy
Do not choose a public plan that assumes she is out.
Questions
Is the first message free?
Yes, a plan lets you open what they wrote. An account and an outgoing message cost nothing. Reading a reply and writing back need a plan. A membership opens the replies, and you can be explicit that you want to meet women.
Do I need to share my history?
No, direct is enough; the rest can wait. You do not have to narrate your history to every match. Being out to family is her information, and Johannesburg, Cape Town and Durban are different risks and different drives. If you are curious about a label, ask once, accept the answer, and do not build a theory.
What if we are a couple?
Say that you are looking for someone else, in the first exchange. Do not ask a woman to prove she is really gay, to send photos on demand, or to educate you. Women meeting women is its own search, not a copy of the men's page.
How do I stay safe?
Public place, a friend told, report and block if a message will not stop. Screening runs on messages, and meet where you can leave. Do not choose a public plan that assumes she is out. A small town and Cape Town are not the same plan.