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How to turn someone on
Say what you want in plain words, then leave room for them to want something else.
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The old headline was a promise to change someone else's body. You can want sex, or flirting, or an early night, and you can say which. The other person gets the same freedom. Desire that needs a trick is the wrong kind for a first meeting.
Put it in ordinary words before anyone travels. I would like the evening to stay light. I would like to see you again and take this slowly. I am hoping we might sleep together if the night goes well. Any of those can be answered with a yes, a no, or a different plan.
Meet somewhere you can both leave. Join free and send the honest version, so the person who replies already knows the shape of the night.
How do you say what you want from the night?
The old headline promised a trick for someone else's body. You can want sex, flirting, or an early night, and you can say which. The other person gets the same freedom. Desire that needs a trick is the wrong kind for a first meeting. Put it in ordinary words before anyone travels.
I would like the evening to stay light. I would like to see you again and take this slowly. I am hoping we might sleep together if the night goes well. Any of those can be answered with a yes, a no, or a different plan. Meet somewhere you can both leave. Sending the honest version is free. A plan is what opens their reply, and you still get to change your mind on the night.