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What men find unattractive

A second date is more likely when the first one felt easy. Manners do that work. Insult lists do not.

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The old piece promised a panel of men and a list of flaws. You can ignore the scorecard. People want to feel that their time was welcome. Arrive when you said, put the phone away, and ask a question you wait to hear answered.

Say what you want from the evening without a riddle. Thank them if you leave early. If something bothered you, one calm sentence is plenty. A catalogue of other people's bodies is how a date becomes a complaint.

Join free and spend that care on someone specific. The second date comes from the first one feeling decent.

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