Before you join
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What does it cost?
Joining, browsing and sending messages are free. Membership is what lets you read and reply to messages. An optional ID check adds a verified badge. See membership.
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Are messages checked?
Messages and media are screened automatically. You can report or block someone from the member area. Read the safety notes.
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Who is on it?
We Love Dates has been introducing people online since 2010. There are 2m+ members across our dating network, so there's usually someone near you. Dating Frame, a trading name of Digital Dudes Ltd, operates the site.
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How do I leave or delete an account?
Members change their password or delete their account in account settings.
Cities in Ireland
Each city page names the neighbourhoods and a public place for a first meeting.
Who you can meet
Open the kind of meeting you want. Each page says who it is for, and why it is worth a look.
- Alternative Meet people in Ireland whose tastes sit outside a scripted app.
- Asian Asian dating in Ireland covers many peoples. Say who you hope to meet.
- Casual Say whether you want something light before the other person plans a relationship.
- Curvy dating Say you want a fat partner in Ireland, plainly, and skip the body commentary.
- Gay dating Meet men for gay dating in Ireland, and say relationship, casual or friendship.
- Gypsy and Traveller Meet Irish Travellers, Roma and Romani Gypsies who want to date within or beyond their community.
- Indian dating Indian dating in Ireland, without a script about parents, marriage or culture.
- Lesbian dating Meet women who want to meet women in Ireland, and say what you are looking for.
- Toyboy dating Age-gap dating in Ireland for adults only. Say the ages. Under 18 is out.
First-date ideas in Ireland
Public places you can both picture, and leave whenever you want.
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Dublin
Meet singles from Rathmines to Howth. St Stephen's Green and Phoenix Park in daylight are easy public plans, and the DART covers Howth and Dun Laoghaire when the coast is the point.
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Cork
Cork city and County Cork are different journeys. The English Market is a sound first meeting in the city. Say which side of the Lee you mean, and do not treat Dublin as a short hop.
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Before you travel
Name the town, agree a place you can both leave, and keep the bus, the DART or the taxi in your own hands. Tell a friend the time you expect to text them.
Dating guides
Notes on pace, a first meeting, and what to take with you.
- Free dating in Ireland Join, browse and send messages in Ireland without paying. Then name the town. Read
- Body language on a date Watch how the hour feels, then ask. Attention over the evening tells you more than one pose. Read
- How much touch belongs on a date Match the pace they set, and ask before you close the distance. Touch is a conversation. Read
- What to pack if you might stay the night Pack for one night you have both agreed. Leave the spare life at your own home. Read
Dating safely in Ireland
Messages are screened automatically, and report and block sit in your account. An optional ID check can add a verified badge when you want one.
Name the town before you agree a time in Ireland. Meet where other people are, and keep the bus, the DART or the taxi in your own name.
What does a plan cost?
A 3 day trial for dating in Ireland is £2.99, then the 1 Month plan at £19.99 unless you cancel. One week is £9.99. Sending a message stays free. Reading a reply and writing back need a plan. See membership prices.
How it works
Start with your email on this page. You finish the profile on the join page, and a photo can wait.
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Say who you want to meet
Tell us a little about you, who you'd like to meet and the age range that suits you.
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Create your account
Add your email, a password and your date of birth. Sending messages is free.
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Sign in and say hello
Sign in at secure.welovedates.com, browse, and write to whoever catches your eye.
Questions about dating in Ireland
Is We Love Dates free in Ireland?
Joining, browsing and sending messages are free. Membership is what lets you read and reply to messages. Prices are on the membership page, and you can stop renewal in Account Settings. Cost is the usual worry, and sending a message stays free.
Who is on it?
Adults who have joined and put a place on their profile. Dublin and Cork have the fullest guides. There are 2m+ members across our dating network. We do not publish a count for Ireland. Name the city or the county, because those are different journeys.
How soon can I meet someone near me?
You can send a message as soon as your account is open. Put your area on your profile, whether that is Dublin, Cork or a smaller town, so people can see whether the journey is realistic. The people you will meet are adults who have put a place on their profile.
Is it safe?
Messages are screened automatically; you can report and block from your account. An optional ID check adds a badge only to the person who takes it. Keep the first meeting in a public place. Name the town, agree a place you can both leave, and keep the bus, the DART or the taxi in your own hands.
What about privacy?
You do not need a photo to join. Your email is for the account, not for the profile to display. Help with the account is in the help centre. St Stephen's Green and Phoenix Park in daylight are easy public plans, and the DART covers Howth and Dun Laoghaire when the coast is the point.
About dating in Ireland
If you searched for free dating sites in Ireland, here is the plain version. You can join, look through profiles and send a message without paying. Membership is what lets you read and reply. We Love Dates has been running since 2010, with 2m+ members across our dating network. Messages are screened automatically before they land.
The people you will meet are adults who have put a place on their profile. Dublin and Cork have their own guides because a city centre, a suburb and a county are different evenings. These pages are about the Republic. If you mean Belfast, that guide sits with the UK cities, not here.
In Dublin, a first meeting might be St Stephen's Green, a walk by the Grand Canal, or Phoenix Park in daylight. The DART makes Howth and Dun Laoghaire a lovely outing when you both want the coast. If one of you is in Rathmines and the other is in Howth, choose a stop between you, or save the coast for a day you both want it. Say the neighbourhood before you call it close.
In Cork, say city or county in the first messages. County Cork can be a long drive from the centre, and the two sides of the Lee are different walks. The English Market is a busy public place in the city, easy to describe and easy to leave. Dublin is its own journey from Cork, so give it a separate day.
Cost is the usual worry. Sending a message stays free. You choose a plan only when you want to read replies and write back, and the prices are on the membership page. You can stop renewal in Account Settings. An optional ID check adds a verified badge to your profile, so people know you are who you say. You do not need a photo to join.
For the first meeting, name the town, pick a busy public place, tell a friend, and keep your own way home. If a chat turns into a request for money, a voucher or a parcel, stop and use report and block. If the first week is quiet, widen the distance you will travel and send two more messages.
Related reading
- Free dating in IrelandJoin and write to someone in Ireland before you pick a plan.
- Free dating indexWhat free means here, one country at a time, before any plan.
- United KingdomCity guides from London to Belfast, when the meeting is in the UK.
- Opening an accountHow the account is created, from the first question to sign-in.
- DublinMeet singles from Rathmines to Howth, with first-date ideas across the city.
- CorkMeet singles in Cork city, with the English Market and both sides of the Lee.
- Indian datingIndian dating in Ireland, without a script about parents, marriage or culture.
- Lesbian datingMeet women who want to meet women in Ireland, and say what you are looking for.
- Curvy datingSay you want a fat partner in Ireland, plainly, and skip the body commentary.
- Gay datingMeet men for gay dating in Ireland, and say relationship, casual or friendship.
- CasualSay whether you want something light before the other person plans a relationship.
- Gypsy and TravellerMeet Irish Travellers, Roma and Romani Gypsies who want to date within or beyond their community.
- Toyboy datingAge-gap dating in Ireland for adults only. Say the ages. Under 18 is out.
- AsianAsian dating in Ireland covers many peoples. Say who you hope to meet.
- AlternativeMeet people in Ireland whose tastes sit outside a scripted app.