Who you want to meet
Alternative dating in Ireland
Alternative is not one single type. Joining, browsing and sending messages are free.
- Free to join and send messages
- Messages screened automatically
- Running since 2010
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Who you might meet
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Alternative, in Ireland, might mean non-monogamy, a music life, a look, or simple weariness with scripted apps. Alternative might mean non-monogamy, a music life, a look, or weariness with scripted apps. Ask which they mean. The first message does not need a plan. A membership opens the replies. Ask which they mean. Guessing from a photograph starts the conversation already wrong.
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Do not assume a person in Cork wants what a person in Dublin wants, and do not use a small-country joke to pry. Say the relationship shape you mean before you agree a time. A list of clubs would be fiction, so pick a public place you can leave.
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Keep the first plan easy to leave. The screen on messages is automatic. If the fit is wrong, say so in one sentence.
What to say
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Ask which
Non-monogamy, music, a look, or weariness with other apps. The word does not pick for you.
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Dublin is not Cork
Say the city you can reach. A small country is not one room with one taste.
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Easy to leave
A busy public place, your own way home, and a clear ending if the evening is not it.
Questions
What does alternative mean here?
Whatever you both say it means. Ask, rather than treating a look as a relationship shape. Alternative, in Ireland, might mean non-monogamy, a music life, a look, or simple weariness with scripted apps. Ask which they mean, and the first message does not need a plan.
Is joining free?
No plan is required to join, browse, or send. Reading them back is the paid step. A membership opens the replies, and ask which they mean. Keep the first plan easy to leave, and the screen on messages is automatic.
Is there a list of venues?
No, name a public place you can leave, in the town you both mean. A list of clubs would be fiction, so pick a public place you can leave. Do not assume a person in Cork wants what a person in Dublin wants, and do not use a small-country joke to pry.
How do I end it if it is wrong?
In one clear message; report and block if they ignore that. Guessing from a photograph starts the conversation already wrong. Alternative might mean non-monogamy, a music life, a look, or weariness with scripted apps. A busy public place, your own way home, and a clear ending if the evening is not it.