Who you might meet
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Name a place, a language or a faith if that is the common ground you want. Send that message before you decide on a plan. The plan is for opening answers and writing back. Name the people and the city you mean, then write to the person.
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Comments about English, about being exotic, or about parents are not an icebreaker. They are why people close the chat. Whangārei is a town and a wider district, not a community defined by the word Asian. Do not mix those ideas.
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Incoming messages go through a screen. Say which city you can reach, including Auckland, Wellington or Christchurch, before you suggest a week.
What to say
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Add a detail
A language, a faith or a city. Say which one you mean, then write to the person.
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A place is a place
Whangārei's page is about the town, not about a body of people.
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Ordinary hello
Ask about the week. Skip the comments about English and family.
Questions
Is Asian one dating type?
No, say the person you hope to meet, and the city. They are why people close the chat, and Whangārei is a town and a wider district, not a community defined by the word Asian. Incoming messages go through a screen, and say which city you can reach, including Auckland, Wellington or Christchurch, before you suggest a week.
Can I message without paying?
Yes, the plan is for opening answers and writing back. You can join and send the message without paying. Reading a reply and writing back need a plan. Name the people and the city you mean, then write to the person.
Which cities are different journeys?
Auckland, Wellington and Christchurch are different cities, and Whangārei is its own town. Name a place, a language or a faith if that is the common ground you want. Comments about English, about being exotic, or about parents are not an icebreaker.
What if a message is insulting?
Report and block: you do not have to answer it. Send that message before you decide on a plan. Auckland, Wellington and Christchurch are different journeys, and Whangārei is its own town, a real journey from Auckland. If a language or a faith is the point, say that about yourself.