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Free dating sites in the United States
Join free, browse singles and send a message. Name the city before you suggest tonight.
- Free to join and send messages
- Messages screened automatically
- Running since 2010
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Before you join
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What does it cost?
Joining, browsing and sending messages are free. Membership is what lets you read and reply to messages. An optional ID check adds a verified badge. See membership.
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Are messages checked?
Messages and media are screened automatically. You can report or block someone from the member area. Read the safety notes.
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Who is on it?
We Love Dates has been introducing people online since 2010. There are 2m+ members across our dating network, so there's usually someone near you. Dating Frame, a trading name of Digital Dudes Ltd, operates the site.
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How do I leave or delete an account?
Members change their password or delete their account in account settings.
Meeting people in the United States
Put your city on your profile, then agree a busy public place you can both leave.
Say the city in your first message so neither of you is guessing a long journey.
Who you can meet
Open the kind of meeting you want. Each page says who it is for, and why it is worth a look.
- Black dating Black dating in the United States, written to the person rather than a category.
- Curvy Say you want a fat partner plainly, without a lecture about food or bodies.
- Divorced Dating after a divorce in the United States, without a speech about starting over.
- Gay dating Meet men for gay dating in the United States, and say what kind of meeting you want.
- Gypsy and Traveller Gypsy and Traveller dating in the US. Meet Romani people and Irish Travellers who date as themselves.
- Mature Mature dating in the United States. Say the ages, and skip the syllabus.
- Single parents Single parents in the United States, dating around the week the children actually have.
- Toyboy dating Age-gap dating for adults in the United States. Say the ages. No one under 18.
First-date ideas in the United States
Public places you can both picture, and leave whenever you want.
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Name the city
Ask which city and which time zone before you suggest tonight. A public place you can leave is enough of a first plan once that is clear.
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Your own way home
Tell a friend where you are going and when you will text them. Keep the booking in your own name, whether that is a rideshare or a train.
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Before a flight
If the plan needs a flight, talk on video first. Do not send money to close the distance. A real person can wait until you have met.
Dating guides
Notes on pace, a first meeting, and what to take with you.
- Free dating in the US Join, browse and send messages in the United States without paying. Ask the city first. Read
- Body language on a date Watch how the hour feels, then ask. Attention over the evening tells you more than one pose. Read
- How much touch belongs on a date Match the pace they set, and ask before you close the distance. Touch is a conversation. Read
- What to pack if you might stay the night Pack for one night you have both agreed. Leave the spare life at your own home. Read
Dating safely in the United States
Messages are screened automatically. You can report and block from your account. An optional ID check adds a verified badge so people know it is you.
Ask the city and the time zone before you suggest tonight. If the plan needs a flight, talk on video first, and never send money to someone you have not met.
What does a plan cost?
A 3 day trial for dating in the United States is $2.99, then the 1 Month plan at $24.99 unless you cancel. One week is $12.99. Sending a message stays free. Reading a reply and writing back need a plan. See membership prices.
How it works
Start with your email on this page. You finish the profile on the join page, and a photo can wait.
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Say who you want to meet
Tell us a little about you, who you'd like to meet and the age range that suits you.
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Create your account
Add your email, a password and your date of birth. Sending messages is free.
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Sign in and say hello
Sign in at secure.welovedates.com, browse, and write to whoever catches your eye.
Questions about dating in the United States
Is We Love Dates free in the United States?
You do not pay to join, look, or send. Plans are listed in US dollars on the membership page. Reading a reply and writing back need a plan. Joining costs nothing, and so do browsing and the message you send.
Will there be someone near me?
Put your city on your profile and ask for theirs. The country is large enough that tonight only works when you are actually in the same place. You might be looking for men who want to meet men, a casual agreement, dating later in life, or life as a single parent.
How are fake profiles handled?
Messages and photos are screened automatically. That screen helps, and you still choose the meeting. The optional ID check gives your profile a verified badge. If a chat turns to money, end it and report the profile. A public place you can leave is enough of a first plan once that is clear.
Do I have to post a photo?
No, you can join without one. A recent photo of you helps later, because a meeting goes better when the picture was honest. If the plan needs a flight, have a video call first. A real person can wait until you have met.
About dating in the United States
If you are comparing free dating sites in the United States, start with what you can do today. Joining costs nothing, and so do browsing and the message you send. We Love Dates has been running since 2010, with 2m+ members across our dating network. Reading a reply and writing back need a plan.
A keen message can still be a flight away. Ask which city they mean, and which time zone, before you suggest tonight. Two people who both typed a state can be a day's drive apart. Put your city on your profile so nobody has to guess.
When you do meet, pick a busy public place you can both leave. Tell a friend where you are going and the time you will text them. If the plan needs a flight, have a video call first. Keep money, gift cards and parcels out of the chat, however far apart you are.
Screening runs on messages. That screen helps. You still choose the meeting. Pass the optional ID check and people can see a verified badge on your profile. Use the account when you need to report or block. Prices, in US dollars, are on the membership page, and you can stop renewal at any time in Account Settings.
You might be looking for men who want to meet men, a casual agreement, dating later in life, or life as a single parent. Say that in ordinary words. Leave room for their answer. Send another note this week and mention a cafe or a park.
Related reading
- Free dating in the USJoin and send a message in the US, then name the city.
- MembershipFree to write. A plan is what opens the reply.
- AdvicePace, a first meeting, and what to do when a chat stalls.
- How joining worksThe path from who you want to meet through to signing in.
- Gypsy and TravellerGypsy and Traveller dating in the US. Meet Romani people and Irish Travellers who date as themselves.
- Toyboy datingAge-gap dating for adults in the United States. Say the ages. No one under 18.
- Gay datingMeet men for gay dating in the United States, and say what kind of meeting you want.
- CurvySay you want a fat partner plainly, without a lecture about food or bodies.
- Single parentsSingle parents in the United States, dating around the week the children actually have.
- Black datingBlack dating in the United States, written to the person rather than a category.
- DivorcedDating after a divorce in the United States, without a speech about starting over.
- MatureMature dating in the United States. Say the ages, and skip the syllabus.