Who Should Initiate “The Talk”?

By: Elizabeth Marie |

When you’re in the beginning stages of dating someone, everything feels a bit uncertain. Will there be another date? Do they like you as much as you like them? Since there has yet to be “the talk” to determine if you are exclusive or not, it can feel like one big waiting game where both parties are on their best behavior and nobody wants to rock the boat. A reader recently sent me an email all about this frustrating in-between period, and asked if it’s OK for a woman to initiate the talk to become an exclusive couple. She was afraid that confessing that she wanted to take things to the next level and have a serious relationship was not only a risk emotionally, but might turn the guy off and leave him feeling cornered.

My answer? Of course it’s OK for a woman to initiate the talk-it’s all about the WAY you do it! To find out what I have to say on the subject, and tips on how to get a guy to commit to you, check out our latest video below!