Are You More Than Just Friends?

By: Elizabeth Marie |

You hang out all the time, text him when you’ve had a bad day and he is always there for you. Technically, you’re “just friends” but could it turn into more?  One of the most common questions we get is from women wondering if their guy bff is in love with them. Here are the best ways to tell if a guy likes you as MORE than just a friend!


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Hey guys, how are you? This is WeLoveDates. Today I’m answering a reader question, one that we get all the time. So many people want to know, how do you know when a guy likes you as more than a friend? So this particular reader, she says that she’s been spending a lot of time with a guy. They go to movies, they go out for coffee, they’ve never kissed, or he’s never, you know, tried to, like, hook up with her. But she says she can tell that he’s always looking at her, and, you know, she gets that feeling. I think we all know how it is to get that feeling, like I think he likes me. How
do you know?

So some guys, when they like you, they take the friend angle, and they go in and try to be your best friend. In a way they get to know you, and make sure that you’re comfortable around each other, and then they go in for, like, you know, the kill, or the relationship. But if you don’t want to wait for that to happen, and you want to make sure that you are on the same page, there’s a couple things to look out for. Number one, is he always trying to touch you? Does he, like, hold your hand for a minute, put his hand on your back, is he flirty? When a guy is flirting with you, he’ll try to touch you, like, it’s a natural thing. Not in, like, a disgusting perverted way, but in just a flirty, fun way. And number three, will he
want to, like, get to know you more and more? When you have a bad day, does he want to listen? Does he want to hang out with your friends, even though they’re annoying? These are all signs that he is into you, and wants to keep getting to know you, and go deeper.

Of course, if you’re friends with someone, and you can tell that there is something in the air, you can always ask what the deal is. It’s risky, ballsy is kind of sexy sometimes though, so you never know, he might be into it. But just see where the friendship goes. Don’t rush anything, you don’t want to lose a friend. So, I hope that helps. Talk to you soon.