What To Do If a Guy Doesn’t Call After Your First Date

By: Elizabeth Marie |

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Today I’m answering a question from a reader who wants to know I think, a question that a lot of us have had to deal with before. You go on a great first date with a guy, and he’s like, “I can’t wait to see you again” and telling you all the things that he wants to do in the future, and then you never hear from him again. What do
you do?

First, you can call or text him. I’m not from the 1950’s, I think
it’s fine if a girl calls a guy that she had a great time with, but only do it once. One text, one email, one Facebook message, one message in abottle, whatever you want, but only once.

Number two is do not stalk him. Do not friend him on Facebook, follow him on Twitter, leave comments on his blog, attack him every time he signs online to the online dating site. Don’t do any of that. Act cool and collected. You never know what could be taking so much time, and also remember that if a guy or a girl wants to hang out with you again, they will let you know. I’m a very big believer in that people, they want to hang out again, nothing can get in their way; no work commitments, no job, no sickness, nothing. If the guy wants to call you, he will. If he doesn’t, he’s telling you something, and maybe he just doesn’t want to tell you to your face, so he’s trying to be nice about it.

Whatever, onto the next. That’s the beauty of online dating, there’s never a shortage of eligible bachelors or bachelorettes. So my advice is, don’t sweat it. You only had one date, you didn’t get married. Move on, and keep having fun. Have a good day!