How To E-Flirt Like A Pro

By: Elizabeth Marie |

Signing up online for a casual dating site is one thing, but actually talking to someone is another.  You want to be witty, playful and sexy so they’ll stop talking to anyone else and ask you out, right?  Of course.  Here’s how to do it.

1. Don’t give away too much…yet.

Once you begin chatting with someone, things can escalate from pretty hot to on fire fairly quickly.  Sexual attraction is crucial when it comes to casual dating of course-I mean, who wants to hook up with someone they find repulsive? Not I!  However, sometimes it’s better to reign in the sexy talk and photos before you meet-not only will it keep the anticipation alive, but it protects you from sending your naughty photos to someone hiding behind a computer screen.  Trust me, you don’t want those to end up on the internet one day.  🙂

2. Ask tricky questions

What do these questions all have in common? “What do you do for fun?” “Do you play any sports?” “Who is your favorite music group?”

UMMM…they’re boring!  If you’re an online dater, chances are you’ve heard these questions literally hundreds of times and you have an answer ready to go, just like a good robot.  You’ve got to make yourself stand out by asking questions that are a bit off center, that make the other person stop and think.  Let’s be honest, it might seem like you are super interested in them but in reality it’s all about setting yourself apart, and above, the crowd.

3. Don’t be too available

You can have phone sex until you’re blue in the face (literally?) but if your end goal is a real roll in the hay, eventually you’ve got to turn off the technology and meet face to face.  If you’re always talking to the other person online or on the phone, there is no reason for them to want things to go further, or no urgency for them to make a move-and this is when you get stuck in a computer or phone relationship. If you’re busy and not too available all the time, they will want to grab a minute of your time-and feel oh so lucky when they do!

As they should.