How to Spot the Kinky Girls on Online Dating Sites

By: Elizabeth Marie |

You know them when you see them and there’s just something that sets them apart: the profile of a kinky girl on a dating site. Many people sign up for UK adult dating, for reasons as different as wanting to test the waters to looking for The One. Not everyone online will be looking to steam up the windows and so if you’re hoping to arrange a hot rendezvous online then you’ll need to get picky and filter out the poor candidates early.

Filtering out the profiles of girls who aren’t looking for sex is a skill, a science and some people even claim to have it down to a fine art. Once you’ve been online for long enough, you’ll find that people who are overtly looking for sex will all tend to represent themselves in a similar way.

The kinkier girls can even be nailed down to similar turns of phrase, and types of photograph. A common phrase amongst those seasoned online daters is “No Time Wasters!”. An attractive and openly sexy girl will likely get more messages than she can handle online.

Many of those will be from overly shy men who send a few messages back and forth but will flake out before meeting. Anyone looking for real, offline sex will probably specify that they only want serious inquiries from people whose profiles have pictures and are willing to give a phone number.

Another thing that you’re looking for in a profile is high energy. It goes without saying that we’re not looking for anyone with a lot of reserve, whose going to write a long profile about their cats. We want to be reading something short and snappy from a girl who has a lot going on in her life. If she’s included a list of interests, look for extroverted activities: the more obvious ones include going out and having a good time, going to clubs and dancing, but many adventurous types will also enjoy skydiving, adventure sports e.t.c

The qualities that make up a kinky girl often include an insatiable appetite for newer and wilder things – a taste for adventure. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not trying to describe Ray Mears in a thong. The girl in question won’t necessarily be overly athletic or masculine. It’s an attitude to life that sets the kinky girls aside from the thousands of more ordinary, less interesting people you’ll inevitably encounter on dating sites.

However, there are a few things to bear in mind in that quest for the kinky hookup. A lot of profiles, apparently from model-looking girls who are “up for it”, will be fake profiles posted by scammers and people selling sign ups to other dating sites.

A lot of people say “If it looks too good to be true, it probably is”. I prefer to think “If it looks too good to be true, investigate!”. Over time, you’ll develop a knack for spotting the profiles of con artists too. Just to be safe, never engage in any monetary transaction with or on behalf of anyone you meet online and be selective about what personal details you give out.