What the Colour You're Wearing Really Says About You-We Love Dates

March 2nd, 2013 by Elizabeth Marie

What the Colour You’re Wearing Really Says About You

We all know that your first date outfit can make an instant impression – but have you considered that it’s not just what you’re wearing that’s giving out all-important signals, but that it’s the colour of your clothes too? Here we give you the lowdown on what the colours you’re wearing say about you – and remember, these aren’t just tips for that special first date, they could be useful for every aspect of your life from job interviews to dinner parties!

Wearing black is celebrated the world over, its slimming effect feeling chic and sophisticated. However, the colour also connotes authority and power which means that wearing too much black can actually make you appear unapproachable.

Due to its non-distracting nature, grey is the colour of subtle sophistication and confidence. Wearing grey implies that you don’t need to rely on your outfit to make an impact which means that all the focus will be on you and your personality.

The colour traditionally known for its innocence and purity, wearing white is a great base to build your personality upon. Acting like a clean slate, it promotes neutral opinions and easy-going lightness.

Highly striking and emotionally intense, red is quite a colour. Because it stimulates the heart and subconsciously causes faster breathing, it can appear as aggressive as it does passionate. Wear with caution, depending on your desired outcome, maybe with just a pop of a red handbag.

Despite its sunny disposition and cheerful nature, wearing yellow can be overpowering. It’s the hardest colour for the eye to perceive which in turn means it’s great for attracting attention and concentration. Just make sure you have the personality to back it up!

The ultimate colour of nature, wearing green appears naturally calming and genuine-feeling. It’s also worth noting that green can subconsciously imply wealth due to its association with money and dollar bills.

Blue skies and tranquil oceans make everyone happy! The presence of the colour blue actually causes the body to release calming chemicals making those around you feel at ease – highly recommended for those all-important occasions where the first impression really counts.

The colour purple occurs very rarely in nature, meaning that there is a danger that you appear artificial and fake. However, this swings both ways as its unusualness also means that it indicates wealth and luxury.

Even more earthy and evocative of nature than green, wearing brown is probably the most natural colour you can get. This naturalness works to suggest your personality as stable, genuine and reliable. A gorgeous pair of brown leather shoes can show you’ve really got your feet on the ground!

Author Bio
When Josie isn’t dolling out the fashion-friendly dating advice, you’ll find her writing for the likes of The Huffington Post, The London Metro and anywhere else that will have her.


Liz is We Love Dates social media manager. A former marketing account executive in the fashion industry, a bad breakup spurred Liz to start her first blog 5 years ago and she has been happily over-sharing with anyone who will read ever since. Obsessed with all things dating, love and tech, Liz has been referred to as the brunette Carrie Bradshaw on more than one occasion. If it's a day that ends in "Y", most likely you will find Liz furiously typing away on her laptop with a huge espresso nearby. Or two. Follow her every thought on Twitter and Google+.

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