February 9th, 2012 by Elizabeth Marie

4 Ways To Make Someone Fall In Love With You

What if I told you that there are certain things you can do to make just about anyone fall head over heels in love with you?  Now, obviously there will always be exceptions to the rule-this isn’t black magic…we aren’t casting any spells or forcing anyone to do anything against their will.  Although, wouldn’t that be fun?  The love spells, not the forcing :)

Anyway, there are a few techniques you can employ that will help nudge the love scale in your direction.   When used the right way, with the right person, you’ll be on your way to happily ever after in no time. But how do you make someone fall in love with you?

1. Make sure they always associate you with positive feelings.
Don’t make the mistake of playing hard to get or being distant in the beginning. When you spend time together, make sure it’s as fun and easy as possible. Get creative with your first date ideas! The goal-leave them wanting more! We don’t fall in love solely based on physical attraction-when you’re looking long term love, you’re more concerned with what kind of life you’d share. Don’t being drama, negativity or mood swings into the equation (not yet, at least!) People are attracted to positive energy, so keep smiling and focus on being the kind of fun person who people naturally flock to.

2. Don’t change who you are.
Many times, when we meet someone that we really like, we become consumed by them. We spend as much time as possible with them, and when we aren’t together we’re calling, texting, emailing and skyping…and if we aren’t doing any of that, you can bet that we’re thinking about them or talking about them. Whew! I’m exhausted already. It’s great to be excited about someone you like, it’s such an exciting feeling, but all that obsessing sure takes up a lot of time. Time that used to spent doing other things, with other people. Bottom line? Don’t alter your life too much for anyone. Your hobbies, your friends and family are all a part of you, and shouldn’t be chucked by the wayside. Maintaining your interests and relationships makes you even MORE attractive to the opposite sex.

3. Eye-contact, baby.
Studies have shown that there is a direct correlation between how often a couple looks at each other in the eyes with how in love they are. When you’re flirting, use your eyes! The longer the looks, the stronger the love. Sounds crazy, right? Well, maybe, but why not at least try to use it to your advantage to make someone fall in love with you? When you look at someone often, it tricks their brain into thinking that they are in fact, in love with YOU, because our brain is hard wired to believe that looks=love. Try it!

4. Make your feelings known!
Give cupid a hand! Sometimes, simple is the best and most effective way to get someone to fall in love with you. I know for me personally that when men have expressed their feelings for me and caught me off guard, it’s encouraged me to see them in a different light. Perhaps I just never thought of them that way, or thought that they might be into me, so I didn’t give the thought of us together a chance and didn’t realize what a great guy was standing right in front of me! There are subtle ways to get your feelings across without sounding creepy or overbearing, so drop some hints and take note of how they’re received. Being honest and vulnerable in front of someone you care about can be scary, but also intensely rewarding.

So what about our readers, how do you make someone fall in love with you?

Liz is We Love Dates social media manager. A former marketing account executive in the fashion industry, a bad breakup spurred Liz to start her first blog 5 years ago and she has been happily over-sharing with anyone who will read ever since. Obsessed with all things dating, love and tech, Liz has been referred to as the brunette Carrie Bradshaw on more than one occasion. If it's a day that ends in "Y", most likely you will find Liz furiously typing away on her laptop with a huge espresso nearby. Or two. Follow her every thought on Twitter and Google+.

13 Responses to “4 Ways To Make Someone Fall In Love With You”

  1. February 14, 2012 at 3:23 pm, Mary Jonson said:

    Nice piece of tips. I enjoy it while reading

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  2. February 14, 2012 at 3:36 pm, Mary Jonson said:

    Nice dating tips. The thing everybody needs at the St. Valentines Day!!!

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  3. February 14, 2012 at 4:57 pm, jose said:

    good tips on dating !!!

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  4. February 16, 2012 at 4:12 pm, Alphan Njogu said:

    Great ways to be open for love. This comes as a confirmation as what I have always believed and professed about love. It’s true that many dating persons are chasing myths of love in the place of real pointers of love. Great theme indeed.

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  5. September 17, 2012 at 5:28 am, Q said:

    I was skeptical with what advice you could offer that would actually work, but you did an excellent job! I can’t disagree with any of those on your list. I especially agree w/#1 because too many people show a negative side that they can’t recover from in the future. Once you get a rep as a hot head, then some people will try to avoid you.

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  6. October 21, 2012 at 12:52 am, Mike said:

    This is pretty much the extent of what you can do. But if who you genuinely are isn’t who someone loves, you can’t change that.
    But its true that people are more attracted to those who have expressed interest

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  7. March 11, 2013 at 10:50 pm, JAYANN said:

    HOW TO MAKE SOMEONE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU,YOU HAVE TO BE CLEAN EVERY TIME.AND YOU HAVE TO REALLY TRY YOUR BEST TO BE NOT SHY,CAUSE SOME BOY’S DON’T LIKE THOSE KIND OF GIRLS. THAT WHY BE NICE WHEN YOU ARE TALKING TO THEM,AND ALWAYS SMILE WHEN YOU LOOK AT T HEM.DON’T LOOK AT THEM AND ROLL YOUR EYES NO DON’T DO THAT. THEY WILL NEVER LIKE THAT, TRY YOU BEST TO BE NICE TO EVERYBODY.

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    • March 11, 2013 at 10:54 pm, JAYANN said:

      BE ALWAYS BE NICE WHEN YOU NEXT TO BOY’S

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  8. March 12, 2013 at 9:26 am, Mahmoud H. said:

    should have read it 3 month ago, its seems so right, I left everything in my life behind, all my time was hers even when we were not together, she started complaining that I give too much of time and tension for her and she cant breath, so finally last week while she was sleeping I was checking her mobile and realized she has already got a new boyfriend and just waiting for the right time to tell me.

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  9. April 04, 2013 at 2:56 pm, Sania Quadri said:

    I wanted to know wat to do in online dating? ??? Hw to prevent ur boy friend from breaking up wid me

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  10. April 09, 2013 at 7:54 am, pat M said:

    I did all this with a man for over a year.We have great memories never argued and looked at each other in the eyes all the time while holding hands,many lovely experiences together.So when he told me “I love you but I’m not in love with you”what do you do then,walk away

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  12. February 02, 2014 at 12:44 pm, BESTIE said:

    HELLO I just wanted to say thank you so much for doing this for me and many others. At the beginning of the break up I felt like I would never love again and that my life has ended. Thanks to all your advice, I now have the courage to face every new day. My heart has healed tremendously and I feel like I can now really move on. If it wasn’t for your words then I would probably still be in that dark place of my life. Thank you, thank you!”drlawrencespelltemple@hotmail. com

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