Comments on: On The Rebound http://www.welovedates.com/blog/2010/07/on-the-rebound/ Online Dating in the UK Thu, 02 Feb 2012 13:18:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Molly http://www.welovedates.com/blog/2010/07/on-the-rebound/#comment-164 Molly Fri, 20 Aug 2010 20:35:48 +0000 http://www.welovedates.com/blog/?p=460#comment-164 If he talks about the ex at all, it is still too fresh in his mind. A good match knocks that out of the conversation at first sight. If he talks about the ex at all, it is still too fresh in his mind. A good match knocks that out of the conversation at first sight.

]]> By: Elite Escorts http://www.welovedates.com/blog/2010/07/on-the-rebound/#comment-163 Elite Escorts Fri, 23 Jul 2010 20:52:37 +0000 http://www.welovedates.com/blog/?p=460#comment-163 Great article.................i really agree with you............... Good luck and good for you that you have the good sense to not let yourself be the rebound girl. Great article……………..i really agree with you……………
Good luck and good for you that you have the good sense to not let yourself be the rebound girl.

]]> By: Sylvia Ryan http://www.welovedates.com/blog/2010/07/on-the-rebound/#comment-162 Sylvia Ryan Mon, 19 Jul 2010 02:07:11 +0000 http://www.welovedates.com/blog/?p=460#comment-162 You know what we call the Rebound Girl in the East...Spare tyres You know what we call the Rebound Girl in the East…Spare tyres

]]> By: Oughta Say http://www.welovedates.com/blog/2010/07/on-the-rebound/#comment-161 Oughta Say Fri, 16 Jul 2010 18:45:41 +0000 http://www.welovedates.com/blog/?p=460#comment-161 On to the next, on to the next. Good girl! On to the next, on to the next.

Good girl!

]]> By: hanako66 http://www.welovedates.com/blog/2010/07/on-the-rebound/#comment-160 hanako66 Thu, 15 Jul 2010 18:11:51 +0000 http://www.welovedates.com/blog/?p=460#comment-160 I'm so proud of you! I’m so proud of you!

]]> By: Melissa http://www.welovedates.com/blog/2010/07/on-the-rebound/#comment-159 Melissa Thu, 15 Jul 2010 17:55:22 +0000 http://www.welovedates.com/blog/?p=460#comment-159 I've been that girl, you know the one that watches the wrong girl hurt your right guy then under the guise of "being there" gets sucked in. It's a tough spot to be in, always caught between your own desires to be seen and your urge to be a suportive. You can't be the the band-aid, you can't be the one that gets drained emotionally time and time again. Healing takes time and he needs to do it on his own. It's to easy to use someone when you're hurting. Good luck and good for you that you have the good sense to not let yourself be the rebound girl. I’ve been that girl, you know the one that watches the wrong girl hurt your right guy then under the guise of “being there” gets sucked in. It’s a tough spot to be in, always caught between your own desires to be seen and your urge to be a suportive.

You can’t be the the band-aid, you can’t be the one that gets drained emotionally time and time again. Healing takes time and he needs to do it on his own. It’s to easy to use someone when you’re hurting.

Good luck and good for you that you have the good sense to not let yourself be the rebound girl.

]]> By: mike! http://www.welovedates.com/blog/2010/07/on-the-rebound/#comment-158 mike! Thu, 15 Jul 2010 17:48:28 +0000 http://www.welovedates.com/blog/?p=460#comment-158 A true friend stabs you in the front. :) I wouldn't consider it kicking when he's down, but he may definitely take it the wrong way if you reveal your true feelings. Also... from experience, when I was coming out of a super, wicked, nasty, finding out my fianceé was leaving me for her coworker episode I was nothing close to my true self for months. Once he's back on his feet and you still dig him in less pathetic form, I say give it a spin. It's tough to not want to help the wounded puppy, but holy crap is that a weak foundation for any relationship. All the obvious aside, I'm really stoked you're respecting yourself enough to avoid the common pitfall. Kudos, lady! :) A true friend stabs you in the front. :) I wouldn’t consider it kicking when he’s down, but he may definitely take it the wrong way if you reveal your true feelings. Also… from experience, when I was coming out of a super, wicked, nasty, finding out my fianceé was leaving me for her coworker episode I was nothing close to my true self for months. Once he’s back on his feet and you still dig him in less pathetic form, I say give it a spin. It’s tough to not want to help the wounded puppy, but holy crap is that a weak foundation for any relationship.

All the obvious aside, I’m really stoked you’re respecting yourself enough to avoid the common pitfall. Kudos, lady! :)

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