Comments on: How NOT to Get a Man to Commit http://www.welovedates.com/blog/2010/06/how-not-to-get-a-man-to-commit/ Online Dating in the UK Wed, 08 Feb 2012 05:48:54 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Bailey http://www.welovedates.com/blog/2010/06/how-not-to-get-a-man-to-commit/#comment-147 Bailey Wed, 30 Jun 2010 00:59:51 +0000 http://www.welovedates.com/blog/?p=429#comment-147 I think the inverse of the last 2 could also be true. If he is the one constantly running errands, cooking dinner and going to the movies you like, he's going to start feeling used. That's a good way to drive someone away -even the most committed guy will eventually give up. And a guy who feels pressured to change himself for his girlfriend isn't going to stick around, either. There are things about anyone that can be better (i.e. poor time management skills and things that can seriously affect a relationship), but those are things that should be worked out within the relationship. Constant nagging about a guy's beer gut or stubble isn't going to make him feel loved, though, and those kinds of things drive an unnecessary wedge between people. There are definitely guys who are just never going to commit, and some of us girls aren't very good at that either, but those last two can definitely go both ways. The first one seems to be more of a female mindset, although I'm sure there are guys out there who feel the same way. I think the inverse of the last 2 could also be true. If he is the one constantly running errands, cooking dinner and going to the movies you like, he’s going to start feeling used. That’s a good way to drive someone away -even the most committed guy will eventually give up.

And a guy who feels pressured to change himself for his girlfriend isn’t going to stick around, either. There are things about anyone that can be better (i.e. poor time management skills and things that can seriously affect a relationship), but those are things that should be worked out within the relationship. Constant nagging about a guy’s beer gut or stubble isn’t going to make him feel loved, though, and those kinds of things drive an unnecessary wedge between people.

There are definitely guys who are just never going to commit, and some of us girls aren’t very good at that either, but those last two can definitely go both ways. The first one seems to be more of a female mindset, although I’m sure there are guys out there who feel the same way.

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