What To Wear On A First Date

By: Elizabeth Marie |

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve stood in front of my closet, clothes thrown everywhere, debating what I should wear on a first date.  I want to look pretty (duh), a little bit sexy but not too sexy, classy, and yet portray my own sense of style.  It’s exhausting!

The key is to keep it simple. A first date is not the time to out try a crazy new trend that you’ve never worn before.  If you’re uncomfortable with what you’re wearing, you’ll look like it, and your confidence will suffer.  If you’re anything like me, your outfit choices can set the tone for your whole day!  Another thing to consider is where you’re going on your date.  A cocktail dress won’t work on a hike, just like a casual pair of jeans would be inappropriate for a nice restaurant.  Rather than risk being improperly dressed, make sure you ask your date what the plans are. A girl has got to know!My favorite things to wear on first dates might seem boring, but they work.  I know I look good in them, I feel good, and I’m comfortable. Winning! Here are a few examples.

For a casual lunch date- A chic,casual dress, cute wedges, stylish accessories and laid back yet polished hair.  See how the dress is sexy but not slutty? Just like you! 🙂 Image via

For A Dinner Date-The little black dress is legendary for a reason!  It’s flattering, classy and chic.  Again-sexy, not slutty! That is your mantra! I would pair this little number with a bright clutch, curled hair and a smile. Men can’t resist…

The Quick Coffee Date-You know, when you’ve just started talking to a guy online and you want to meet him in person and make sure he’s not a serial killer?  The date is short and sweet, and showing up dressed to the nines would be silly.  You don’t want to look sloppy though, so it’s important to be casual while remaining put together.  Rachel Bilson does this exceptionally well. Her jeans are tailored and her outfits are well thought out, yet totally relaxed and effortless. Image via

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